Ten Great Provoking Films That Explore Being on the Outside

Standing on the outside looking in? A sometimes painful and lonely experience. Maybe it’s why it is a subject often explored in the creative world, from books to paintings via music and cinema. Cinema is fascinated with outsiders; the universal desire to belong and be understood makes for great storytelling. And as a theme, it has been explored in many forms. It could be the collective experience of an immigrant family, or the reality of a kid who struggles to fit in with classmates. Or, perhaps, even a lonely grown-up trapped in nostalgia, unable to strip themselves of grief after losing a loved one. To find out more, read Ten Great Provoking Films That Explore Being on the Outside. 

Outsiders Perspective

Many filmmakers have set out on a journey to understand what it means to be on the literal or metaphorical outskirts. What it feels like to look inside a world that seems to ostracise those who either don’t fit in visually, or don’t wish to conform. Capturing the outsider perspective reveals complexity; shining light on untold stories and deepening our empathy for one another, or allowing us to connect with others sharing the same experience.

No Et Moi, 2010 French Film By Zabou Breitman

Friendship amongst kids can be tricky. ‘No Et Moi’ is a 2010 film drama adaptation of the award-winning 2007 novel by Delphine de Vigan. It follows a thirteen-year-old girl named Lou, a gifted child who struggles with connecting to peers in school. With a mother who is clinically depressed and withdrawn, and a father doing his best to keep the family together, Lou is left living in her own mental bubble. With a tough home and school life, she becomes acutely observant of the imperfections of the society around her.

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When her teacher assigns Lou to work on a project, she decides to interview a young homeless girl aged eighteen, whose name is No. This develops into a deep friendship, as the two characters’ outsiderhood perpetuates a bond. Lou goes on to convince her parents to take No in, but as one might expect, that journey is in no way linear. ‘No Et Moi’ is a story of how estrangement can be both emotional and socioeconomical. Whilst Lou comes from a middle-class background and is significantly younger, she can empathise with No’s sense of abandonment by the world.

BlacKkKlansman, 2018 American Film By Spike Lee

‘BLACKkKLANSMAN’, Spike Lee’s film based on a true story, follows the first Black detective, Ron Stallworth, in the Colorado Springs Police Department in the 1970s. To kickstart his career, he responds to a news advert calling for new members of the Ku Klux Klan. The deeply racist far-right group, of course, directly clashes with Ron’s skin colour. Ron pretends to be White on phone calls with the Klan members, whilst having a white Jewish colleague, Flip Zimmerman, impersonate him at in-person meetings.

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Ron and Flip gather intel on the group’s activities, working to investigate and disrupt them, increasingly becoming caught up in the real threat of what the Klan does. The film begs the question of how people must navigate systems that exclude them, and how those issues can be unravelled and rebelled against.

Bagdad Cafe, 1987 German Film By Percy Adlon

Unlike the previously mentioned films, Percy Adlon’s ‘Bagdad Cafe’ is eccentric, with unusual images and scenes obstructing the storyline. The film takes place on a remote stretch of a highway, where German tourist Jasmin Münchgstettner walks into a motel cafe in what seems like a far-flung outpost of America after arguing with her husband. What follows is a series of events that explore what it means to be alone among locals in a foreign country who seem to view you with suspicion and distrust. However, amidst that, Jasmine finds a community, as it turns out that all the ‘locals’ who stay at the motel are just as lonely, outsiders in their own way.

The feeling of being estranged from somewhere exists not just in the themes of the plot, but also in the visual atmosphere. It is drenched in vivid colours, and Jevetta Steele’s ‘Calling You’ plays at various points of the film, conveying a mirage-like feeling. All of the characters in the film are uniquely memorable, and there is a sweetness in the unlikely found family that forms from a foundation of awkwardness and cross-cultural misunderstanding.

Paris, Texas, 1984 Film By Wim Wenders

‘Paris, Texas’ is a fascinating example of being on the outside in a place where you were once an insider. The plot focuses on Travis Henderson, a man who, after being missing for four years, is discovered by his brother and reunited with his son. Travis and his little boy set out on a journey to find the mother, Jane.

It isn’t the social pressures of economic difficulty that pushed Travis to the edge. Quite the contrary, he chose to abandon his family, which, as revealed, he destroyed through jealousy and unreliability. As he tries to revive the life he let wither away, the viewer can’t help but ask if one can reinvent themselves after years of mistakes and self-imposed isolation.

Karthik Calling Karthik, 2010 Indian Film By Vijay Lalwani 

What if you were jerked awake by a phone ring, and on the other line, it was yourself? ‘Karthik Calling Karthik’ is an Indian psychological thriller about a timid and self-conscious man, overpowered by childhood trauma, named Karthik, who simply can’t seem to find his footing in life.

His boss humiliates him, while the woman of his dreams is practically oblivious to his existence. Karthik’s alienation drives him to prepare for a suicide attempt when, suddenly, he receives a mysterious call. Upon picking up the phone, he hears his own voice. The phone calls become frequent, ringing daily at five in the morning with instructions on how he can improve his life. There is only one condition: he must keep the calls a secret.

The phone calls become Karthik’s salvation as he gains recognition at work and wins the heart of Shonali. As he confides in Shonali and reveals the calls, everything begins to go wrong. At the core of the film is the reality of life with mental health struggles and schizophrenia, which drives people to not only be isolated from society but also be strangers to themselves.

The Loveless, 1981 American Film By Kathryn Bigelow and Monty Montgomery

‘The Loveless’, starring young Willem Dafoe, is as wild as its subject; however, not in the way one might expect when approaching a biker gang film. It follows a motorcycle gang of greasers staying in a small rural town en route to Daytona. They immediately come into conflict with the locals, even though in reality, they are a relatively subdued group. Their outsider identities inform their lifestyle, as society views them with suspicion even before they speak. Their black leather appearance is integral to how they are perceived and, consequently, misunderstood.

The film goes on to underline the irony that what the people of the town and the bikers share is a sense of loneliness. The former are bored with their conforming lifestyle, and the latter are isolated by their rebellion. ‘The Loveless’ highlights the modern struggle of finding one’s place in the world that feels true and safe.

La Haine, 1995 French Film By Mathieu Kassovitz

‘La haine attire la haine! (Hatred breeds hatred!)’: That is the iconic line where the film takes its title. ‘La Haine’ is a French social thriller starring Vincent Cassel of ‘Taxi Driver’ (1976), which follows three men coming from a poor Parisian immigrant neighbourhood. Unlike ‘The Loveless’, which portrays a group of outsiders penetrating a suburban town, the characters of ‘La Haine’ are outsiders within their own community. Living in a housing estate, their poverty and ethnicity prevent them from feeling a part of the country where they are citizens.

The plot is based around a news outbreak regarding a riot against police brutality. The film brings to the surface the issue that remains prominent in this day and age, where many feel that institutions built to represent them aren’t on their side. Instead of having trust in authorities to protect their right to exist, people feel that they are being viewed as suspects, outcasts in a place that should be home.

All Of Us Strangers, 2024 British Film By Andrew Haigh

Silence can often embolden grief and separation from the present. ‘All Of Us Strangers’ is a romantic fantasy starring Andrew Scott and Paul Mescal. It delves into the question of what it means to live in a reality clouded by ties to the past and words left unsaid. At the centre of the story is Adam, a lonesome screenwriter who lives in a dystopian-looking block of flats. Fellow tenant Harry approaches the protagonist, suggesting the two spend a night together, which Adam declines.

The following day, the latter visits his family home, where he sees visions of his long-dead parents. He has dinner with them, and upon returning to his flat, he asks Harry to join him for the night. As Adam and Harry develop feelings for each other, Adam continues to visit his parents, revealing his homosexuality to his mother and his pain that his father never acknowledged his childhood bullying. The love story between Adam and Harry brings to the surface the necessity of letting go of the past.

Fabric, 2026 Film By Anabelle Marshall

People, like textiles, are layered beings with a myriad of experiences. ‘Fabric’ is a documentary short by Anabelle Marshall, which will premiere at the Raindance Film Festival during Refugee Week in London on June 19th. The film follows a Parisian fashion atelier, Espero Atelier, which trains refugees in haute couture tailoring in order to facilitate their pathways into the fashion industry.

The refugee artisans work to create a dazzling fashion collection, showcased at the Musée d’Orsay on the eve of Haute Couture Week. For many migrants, this is an experience of integration and entry into the fashion world after a lifetime of displacement. At the core of the film is humanity and empathy across cultures, as well as a striving for a society that offers equal opportunity.

Familiar Touch, 2026 Film By Sarah Friedland

‘Familiar Touch’ is a coming-of-old-age film following an older woman with dementia, Ruth, who thinks she is going on a date to a hotel, yet ends up at an assisted living facility. She must contend with her conflicting relationship with herself, her condition and her caregivers amidst her shifting memory, age identity and desires.

Ruth finds herself as an outsider within her own body, where her perception doesn’t always match reality. Nonetheless, in her heart, she remains unapologetically herself.

Blue Heron, 2026 Canadian Film By Sophy Romvari

What happens when the mind of someone whose blood we share becomes a Pandora’s box? Canadian filmmaker Sophy Romvari’s first new full-length film for 2026, ‘Blue Heron,’ chronicles her Hungarian family’s immigration to Canada. The central issue lies in her brother Jeremy’s increasingly alarming behaviour, which impacts their endeavour to build a new life.

The film, told from the eyes of the youngest daughter, Sasha, is split into two parts. The first captures the family in the 90s, as Jeremy fades to the margins of the familial dynamic in several subtly chaotic outbursts. He smashes the window in the middle of the night and silently cries as the mother wraps a kitchen towel around his bleeding hand. He stomps around the rooftop, seemingly deaf to his parents’ exhausted pleas to get down. He breaks down after his father questions him when he is brought home in handcuffs, arrested for shoplifting.

But then, there are moments where he is sifting flour on his siblings’ heads, an imaginary snowfall, or drawing incredibly detailed maps, perhaps the only clue to what’s going on inside his head.

His impulsivity isn’t an act of petty rebellion, but a struggle to understand or explain himself. As the parents reach out to various care professionals and psychologists, their frustration grows when unanswered questions lead to more confusion. The film engages with how the system fails in dealing with children whose mental health struggles cannot be explained with a diagnosis. The paralysing powerlessness hangs over the family, time and time again.

In the second part of the film, Sasha is older, an established filmmaker. Jeremy has now passed, and she attempts to piece together advice from modern-day care professionals, a conversation with one of his previous psychologists who knew the family in the 90s, and her own remembrances of both his recklessness and softness for a profoundly personal film project. Here, the conventional narrative structure is deconstructed, much like the blurry understanding Sasha has of her brother.

Jeremy hardly has any dialogue throughout the film, signalling the family’s inability to comprehend his inner world. There is a motif of looking through windows, corridors, and listening through the walls, which emboldens his alienation from the family. More importantly, though, it shows the indecipherable truth.

The older Sasha has never ceased battling with the sense that there is much she doesn’t remember, and even more that neither she nor the family will ever understand about Jeremy. The film is a potent exploration of emotional distance and the search for meaning amidst fractured memories.

‘Blue Heron’, as a film, explores so many facets of being not just an outsider in a community but also within one’s own family. Raw, painful, yet compelling and beautiful, these explorations offer insight into the core human yearning for connection. Watching those films, all unique in their themes, may let us all feel a little less alone.

‘Blue Heron’ will be out in cinemas in the UK and Ireland from June 26th.

‘Fabric’ will screen at the 2026 Raindance Film Festival with its world premiere on June 19 at 3:45 pm.

‘Familiar Touch’ will be out in cinemas in the UK and Ireland on June 19th.

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