Life Is Like a Porcupine Hug- Painful, Weird, Yet Hilarious

Some of the hardest things in life, like death, illness, war, unemployment, and cultural differences, are often the ones we shy away from, difficult to explain to ourselves but even harder to discuss with others. But films have a way of slipping them into the conversation, not always through serious drama, but with humour, irony, and sometimes pure absurdity. These stories don’t just show pain, they help us laugh through it, process it, and maybe even find a little peace in the chaos. It’s not just about mixing death with jokes; it’s about how cinema makes space for the things we struggle to say out loud. Grief, loss, fear, they’re all there, wrapped in fragile, beautiful layers that reflect the fine line between being “fine” and falling apart.
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Painful, uncomfortable, and even awful to discuss, who wants to talk with others or even with strangers about painful subjects. But there is the old adage that laughter can help. And cinema can do this very well. Over the years many films have dealt with the idea of laughter through pain. Here are a few of the best and even a new one.

Some films of the past didn’t shout out loud. Those films didn’t rush to add dramatic music or fancy edits. They let the characters sit with their feelings, and in that silence, letting the weight of everything be absorbed by the viewer. There’s something about old films that feels honest and raw. Maybe that’s why they leave a long-lasting impression. Still, some newer films manage to capture that same feeling, proving that powerful storytelling is not just a thing of the past.

The Full Monty (1997)

In post-industrial Sheffield, where the steel mills have gone quiet and jobs are scarce, The Full Monty (1997) tells the story of a group of unemployed men trying to find meaning in the chaos. Faced with financial hardship and shaken identities, they come up with an unexpected plan: to form a strip act, not for fame, but to reclaim a sense of control and dignity.

The humour isn’t there to make light of their pain; it’s how they survive it. Jokes become armour. Friendship becomes therapy. And slowly, they begin to feel human again. The Full Monty isn’t really about taking off clothes; it’s about taking back power when the world has stripped everything else away. It leaves you wondering: in moments of shame, can laughter be our way back to hope?

East is East (1999)

This is a British comedy-drama that follows the Khan family in 1970s Salford, where cultures clash not in far-off lands, but within the four walls of a single home. At the centre is George Khan, a Pakistani father determined to raise his children according to traditional values, and Ella, his British wife, trying to hold their family together as their children navigate their own paths.

The film doesn’t lecture, it laughs. It laughs at the chaos of parenting, at cultural confusion, at the way love can feel like pressure. But beneath the humour lies a deeper truth: that sometimes, families break trying to protect each other, and that growing up can mean growing away. East Is East gently asks: What does it mean to be ‘good’ in two different worlds? And who gets to decide?

The Death of Mr. Lazarescu (2005)

The Death of Mr. Lazarescu is a Romanian film that follows one elderly man’s long night through the public healthcare system in Bucharest. What begins as a headache turns into a quiet, unsettling journey across hospitals, revealing not just his worsening condition, but the slow, bureaucratic indifference of those meant to care for him.

It says something quietly powerful about how society treats the vulnerable, not with cruelty, but with indifference. The humour isn’t there to lighten the mood; it’s there to remind us how surreal it is that such a universal part of life is met with such a cold routine. In the end, the film asks a simple, haunting question: When your time comes, will anyone be paying attention?

Little Miss Sunshine (2006)

Little Miss Sunshine is a funny and touching story about a family that doesn’t seem to have it all together. They all pile into a small, old van to take their daughter Olive to a beauty pageant, hoping she can win. But the trip is full of problems, family fights, embarrassing moments, and personal struggles.

Each member is dealing with their issues: the dad is chasing success but keeps failing, the brother has sworn off talking, the grandpa struggles with addiction, and the mom tries to keep everyone calm. Despite all the chaos, the family stays together and supports Olive in her dream. The film shows how life is often messy and far from perfect, but that doesn’t mean we give up on each other.

Its main message is about the meaning of success; it’s not about trophies or winning, but about showing up and being there for the people you love. Little Miss Sunshine uses humour and real emotions to remind us that even when life breaks down, sticking together and accepting each other’s flaws is what really matters.

The Farewell (2019)

This film tells the story of a Chinese-American family who come together under the guise of a fake wedding to quietly say goodbye to their beloved grandmother, who doesn’t know she has only weeks to live. It’s not just a film about dying, but about how people cope when faced with loss.

The Farewell isn’t really about dying; it’s about how we deal with it when it’s staring us in the face. It explores the messy, emotional politics of love, grief, and the lies we tell to protect the people we can’t bear to lose. This film gently peels back the layers of cultural contrast, asking if truth is always the kindest option.

With a tender, ironic tone, it shows how families often grieve through laughter, food, and pretending everything’s fine. You’ll find more truth in the awkward silences and dumpling-making than in any dramatic hospital scene. The Farewell leaves you quietly reflecting: Is love more about honesty, or about holding someone gently in the dark?

Jojo Rabbit (2019)

Jojo Rabbit is a film that uses humour to shine a light on one of the darkest chapters of war history. Through the eyes of a young boy in Nazi Germany, it explores the absurdity and cruelty of conflict while showing how innocence struggles to survive amid chaos. The film doesn’t shy away from the horrors of war, but it wraps them in satire and warmth, reminding us how human connection can bloom even in the bleakest times.

It challenges the blind hatred and propaganda that fuel conflict, using comedy to break down barriers and reveal the tragic impact war has on families and individuals. By balancing laughter with heartbreak, Jojo Rabbit highlights the madness of war and the resilience of the human spirit, showing that even during destruction, hope and compassion can find a way.

Dying (2024)

Dying is a German film that doesn’t just bring tears; it holds up a mirror. It tells a story about the parts of life we often avoid: illness, grief, family, and endings. Yet, amid this heaviness, the film quietly slips in humour, not the loud kind that demands attention, but the gentle, surprising jokes that catch you off guard and ask, “Have you ever thought about how absurd all of this is?”

This isn’t a silly comedy set in a hospital. It’s more subtle, the way a father tries to control what’s uncontrollable, the way a daughter laughs so she doesn’t unravel. It is the comedy of human contradiction: planning life while packing for the end. And in those contradictions, Dying feels alive.

While films continue to explore serious themes with a mix of humour, new plays like The Statesman are also stepping in to show how laughter can be used to reflect on silence, control, and what lies beneath the surface.

The Statesman by Joel Marlin

One such story is The Statesman, an absurdist comedy written by Joel Marlin and produced by Metal Rabbit Productions. The play is about a quiet village where laughter has been banned for generations. When a boy is punished for laughing, the event is noticed by the Queen and a representative is sent to investigate.

There, an old man is found who has whose job is to teach comedy, even though no one has laughed in years. Through sharp humour and unusual moments, the play shows how laughter can be used to challenge silence and control. Just like many films that deal with grief and fear through irony, The Statesman reminds us that even when people say they are “fine”, humour can reveal what’s being felt underneath.

You can experience Dying on the big screen when it releases in UK and Irish cinemas from Friday, 25th July 2025. Sometimes, the best way to face the hardest truths is to sit in the dark, with strangers, with laughter, and with a story that sees us.

Find more information about The Statesman at Theatro Technis.com, which is from 10th September to 27 September, with shows at 7:30 pm, 2:30 pm. Don’t miss this clever, funny play. Go and enjoy a night of absurd comedy and sharp storytelling.

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